Breaking up..could it be a good thing?

Breaking up....can it be the best thing you ever did?

Sometimes it could be a good thing to end a relationship.  Even if people surrounds you suggest the way round just because they think you & your partner "meant to be together" or "look good together" or whatever phrase that means "you should stay put & suffer being with your partner because we love to see you both together even if you are not happy".  Surprisingly, to please them, you stay suffer & unhappy.

But wait, you are the one who have to put up with all the crap wasn't it? Headache. Miserable. Suffer. Sad. Unappreciated. 

Relationship is about you & your partner. Not about people surrounds you. Whatever decision you make, it yours. Because whatever it is, it's your life. 

It is you the one in the relationship with your partner. Its you the one who have to face the both sides of your partner which is the good & the bad. Which the other people, who are not in the relationship (of course they weren't) didn't get the chance to know your partner the way you do. Simply put, they don't know who is your partner really is. 

Why would you let yourself suffer? The most important is, why would you waste your precious time?

Life is a journey. Let's say a relationship is like wearing a pair of shoe (the shoe represent your partner). People surrounds you may love the shoe. It may be a shoe which they think fits you the best. However, you get a blisters on your foot by wearing the shoe. Continuously wearing the same shoe  would get the blisters on your foot getting worst & worst. 

Now, 

The question is: Would you continue wearing the same shoe?

Options: Keep wearing the shoe for your entire journey and suffer as the blisters on your foot gets worst OR you can get a new shoe which much more comfortable & supporting for your entire journey.

Still, it's up to you. As mentioned earlier, it is your life. It's your call.

There are plenty people out there would be looking for someone like you to be with. There's always a chance for you to meet new people & start a new relationship. No rush of course. 

Some relationships, instead of considered as the worst, horrible or terrible should be viewed as a stepping stone. Yes. A stepping stone.  A stepping stone for you to develop & improve. It's a learning experience. As to change yourself to be a better person.

Everything happened for a reason. Its up to you to view it from which perspective, figure out what the reason is and accept the facts: It happens. And, MOVE ON.